Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Friday, February 13, 2015
I remember back more than a decade ago, my dad called me from Michigan. He always called me late at night. He always drank and I suppose he would feel lonely and call me. The very last call was on a Sunday night around 11PM. I knew as soon as the phone rang, it was him. We talked and talked for over an hour. The difference was we talked about stuff he had never mentioned before. EVER. I guess I should have known something was up. At that moment , I didn't get it.
He had a heart attack a week later and was left in a coma for nearly a year. Then, he died. I have always wondered if he knew that would be our last call.
I remember Gilda telling me about her knee surgery. She had one knee "done" just before she died. She went on to say she would have the other fixed in the summer when she was on her next teaching vacation. That vacation never came for her. I keep thinking about this all the time.
So here I am. I am wondering what will become of me, my art, and my life. I realize now, life is so fragile. We never know what is coming next. For me, I try to imagine the next year. It is so hard. I keep thinking Gilda never got her other knee fixed. My dad really didn't know for sure this was the last time we would ever talk. This is symbolic to me. We never know. We never know. So now, I need to just keep living. I will never know either. None of us will. I need to keep making art because this is my life. Yes, Gilda won't be there to comment. My dad won't be there to support.
Only I will be here to keep pushing myself to keep going until my last call.
Sunday, October 19, 2014
I have been an artist for decades. Those decades have been monetarily supported via art sales and teaching. When I first started teaching art in 1980, it was a magical thing. I could go into a room of young students, suggest ideas, and then, let them do their OWN thing. We all created masterpieces. They got to experience creativity without judgment or restrictions. They were artists all. We were free.
It is very, very different now. These are the days when I have to march kids to the computer lab for a standardized test which basically quizzes them on the elements and principles of art. I think this is horrific. However, it is what it is in this time of restrictions and data collection. Art teachers now are even told what projects to teach. These "scores" go into a database and will be compared to more numbers at the end of the year. It is so ridiculous.
I work with kids who have rough lives. I don't care if they know the "Elements and Principles". I really don't. What I care about is the smile on their faces when I show them how to mix colors. I care about their happiness when they arrive at the art room. I care about the pure JOY they feel and express as they are making their art. This is what is truly important.
We, as a society have lost our way. We seem to think if a product isn't made, judged, scored, and documented, it is worthless. Would any of you turn to a child and tell them "Sorry, your work is not good enough!"? I remember when I was in elementary school, art class was about just making stuff. I was filled with joy with each class. I wonder if someone judged my work so brutally, would I have ever become an artist? Have you ever seen a child's face when her/his work gets rejected from an art show? I have and it isn't pretty. SHAME ON US!
Acrylic on Canvas
24" x 24"
We all have to remember the product and the dollar can only go so far.
Our quality of life is also linked to our personal expression and experiences.
We all need to have experiences that help us realize the JOY of being ALIVE!
I think we have forgotten that and it is tragic.
Friday, October 10, 2014
We went to school together way back in the 70's. So losing her represents the end of that era. It is strange. Recently, we spoke about death via FB message. So many of our friends were dying. I told her that we are at that age. It is going to happen whether we like it or not. I just never thought it would be about either one of us.
So now, she is gone. It has taken a month for me to even say this. I need to let it go. I need to let her go. I need to get on with my art and life. I am so glad we shared a history. She was one person who I could talk with while voicing the same kind of "art speak". Right now, I am talking to myself. NO. I am still talking to her. She just doesn't answer immediately. I am sure she will send me signs. I am sure she is still listening to my crazy rants. I am sure she is thinking "That Sheree. She is like that."
She will always be part of my DETROIT memories. It is my hometown. She was my home girl.
Love ya Gild.
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Saturday, September 13, 2014
This week my best art friend died. Her name was Gilda Snowden. I cannot start to tell you what a phenomenal woman she was. I met her in the mid 70's at Wayne State University. We were comrades in undergrad and grad school. We have maintained our friendship for nearly 40 years. Her sudden and unexpected death has left a hole in my heart. She was more than just a friend. She was part of my spirit.
When I heard of her death, I remembered what my dad had said. "Where did all those brains go?" I thought of this because Gilda's foremost goal was to be a scholar. She wanted to be smart about art and life. OH, she attained her goal. She was one of the smartest people I know. I could talk to her about anything and everything. This is a rare gift. I too am a knowledge seeker. Sometimes I feel all alone because I think of things nobody else cares about. Gilda always did. So where do those brains go? Every day when I am teaching, I am met with smiling faces ready to make art. Gilda had the same thing happen. We all touch lives. We share tidbits of knowledge and experience. Those seeds are scattered into the Universe. Everything we do and share is distributed all over our worlds. Little pieces of us are floating in the air and caught by the people we touch. That is the answer Daddy.
The happiest thing for me is just weeks ago, I sent her a crown for her 60th birthday.
On the day it arrived, she put it on and sent this photo to me.
I will always love you Gilda.
Saturday, August 23, 2014
I have had the pleasure of meeting 500+ new students this week. It was a hot, crazy mess. However, I loved every minute of it. I was reminded that every human being needs to learn about creativity. Also, there are special individuals who are true, young artists. It is in their blood. For example, I met one little girl who cut her own bangs. I asked her about this. I asked her why she did this. Her response was "Because I wanted to." I asked if she got in trouble for doing this? She said "NO". That made me smile. She has a great parent or two. Some might see this as misbehavior. I see this as the work of an young artist trying to express themselves.
Despite the fact we need to teach everyone about creativity because no matter where your place in the world falls, you will need to be creative. There are always individuals who "get" this already. These young human beings already know the way. They are born creative. They express themselves through their dress and style. They might be moody even at a young age. They are different. Maybe this is why some artists feel like they have been outsiders their entire life.
It is very difficult to try to get close to so many students at one time. It is almost impossible to have a working relationship with that many students each week. This is why I focus on the art kids first. I can spot them from a mile away. They were born this way. Creativity runs through their veins. They are my young artists.
These are my people.
Saturday, August 16, 2014
SOCIETY. We have a problem. Our values are so skewed. What are we thinking? If you watch TV, you will see people spending thousands of dollars on purses or being famous for doing nothing other than posing for selfies. What is going on here?
Even though I am a wise, intellectual woman, I too fall for the joke. I will admit. I have felt lesser due to all the stuff I see in media. When I see all the star studded opulence and grand lives parading in front of me, it is hard not to think "My life sucks!"
Then, there are moments of clarity. This week I was hired to teach full time again. I took two years off. This past year, I was an Instructional Substitute to help make financial art ends meet. During this time, I realized that I am an artist without a doubt. However it dawned on me, I am a natural teacher too.
I stopped at the store after work today. As I rounded the corner of the aisle, I saw a little girl looking at me. Our eyes met. Her eyes became as big as saucers. I smiled back and said "I know you!" I was her substitute teacher for a couple of days last year. She smiled the biggest smile. I guess she just ate a blue popsicle or something. Her teeth were all blue. We talked for a few minutes. I told her I couldn't be her sub anymore because I am a regular teacher now. We hugged and I wished her well. I told her to do a great job in 2nd grade.
When I left the store, I thought about all the little bits of Sheree I have left around the world. My art is floating around the globe. More importantly, I have decades of blue tooth children who have experienced my Sheree wisdom and weirdness. It will stay with them. This is why their faces light up when they see me. They remember the experience of being around me. Like morsels dropped on a path, I have left a trail.
This is what really matters.